There are so many alternatives that work just as well as self-harming without the physical injury.
Here are a few that I personally use;
1. When I'm feeling very angry for one reason or no reason at all, I find that getting the anger out as soon as possible helps me the most. There are a couple of ways of doing this.
- The first thing I'd want to do is punch something, something soft. A large pillow is best for this because you don't have to be accurate, you can just punch anywhere. Continue doing this and I guarantee the anger will be gone.
- Singing to a powerful song. Power ballads or anything you like is a good call. I do this all the time. I sometimes even lip-sync the anger out of me in a mirror, it's very affective.
- Stomping and screaming. I don't do this as much but it does also help. If you are lucky enough to have a house to yourself for a few minutes or even hours, this is the perfect time. Don't do it at work, otherwise that promotion you were hoping for has already gone.
- Dance it out. Blare your favourite track and just dance like no one is watching. Go crazy with it and just have fun!
- Going for a walk, getting some fresh air is great!
- Phoning or being with someone who makes you happy.
Miss Catherine x
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